Social Media, email marketing, and fast traveling news, have an unintended side effects. It is so much easier to now view what is going on in everyone else’s life. Believe or not, there used to be a time when people actually had to wait for their 10, 20 or 30 year high school reunion to ‘catch up’ on “what everyone else is doing”. Today this is not so. You simply log-on and virtually view anyone and all their glory. In fact, it is too clear to view into someone’s world that it is also easy to get unconsciously sucked into the low vibration of what everyone else is doing.
To take this even further, this is exactly what I experienced today.
Here is what happened. I was sitting at my computer with a great idea that I was about to share with my team when I got distracted by my inbox indicator. While trying to gather my thoughts to share, I innocently clicked on email from a world famous coach whom I mostly follow for fun tips and ideas.
You see, I usually don’t DO comparative energy but I kinda realized that the email from the famous coach was actually a promotion for another emerging coach. A coach I had never even heard of. Curious, I clicked on the new coach’s link and up popped a promotion for a program/school that was an idea I had already been working on, or better yet, a topic for which I was already having success in helping other clients. Yet, instead of being happy for this new coach or even just curious, I was envious, comparing myself with her and even more hurtfully, shamefully judging myself for not being her.
Ok. Let’s be honest. The new coach’s graphics were hot and she did appear to have tons of credibility plus, there it was, all beautifully laid out and starting this month (Whaaaaaaat?!?).
Suddenly, I realized 5-10 minutes had flown by or maybe longer, of me just sitting in harmful judgment of my message, my business, and of myself.
Finally, it hit me. NO! I am not just gonna fall into to this distractor implant or low vibrating energy of comparison. Somehow, right now I am choosing differently.
Luckily, I’ve had the opportunity to learn from some of the industries’ biggest thought leaders and masters of high vibration thinking. So instead of continuing to judge me, I remembered to step back, take a breath, neutralize my charge and then begin to view her site from a place of pure curiosity and admiration for her success and darn good graphics. For I remembered the “if you spot it, you got it” phrase. Basically, I remembered that I could now view her success as if it was something that could be a reality for me, too. In other words, if I spot the success for this new emerging coach, then this is the same (maybe even better) success that I could actualize for myself.
Yay! This meant, I could be sharing my PR and Media Training Program globally, too. Because the truth really is, I had just as good of a graphics designer and lots of radio and television creditability (15 years), too. Then I began to laugh at myself for unconsciously trying to get sucked into the comparison energy AGAIN! So my message for you today, whether you are on Facebook staring at the wonderful side of everyone’s life (because that’s when most people post) or at a Fitness Blog, just remember that all the things you admire in others could be the things that you could create for your reality, too. The universe is always trying to give us glimpses of the things we could create in our lives. So when we see a beautiful car or someone with an awesome business launch, be sure to give gratitude to the Universe for reminding you that it wants to send you the same or even better.
Note: When we use stay in comparative energy or any other low vibration energy, we block our blessings. Next time you get into comparative energy try to take a deep breath and give gratitude or write a funny blog about it and tell the world you are normal (just like I just did) AND… Yes, I am now laughing at myself for judging me. Till next time 🙂
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